ye zindagi

today i returned from bikaner. i had been there due to my sister's ill health. now she is doing fine. there i got a chance to hangout with some of my jiju's friends. my jiju, being an army officer, has his friends from army itself. so i got a chance to go out for dinner with few of his friends and colleagues which included one captain, two majors and one lieutenant colonel and the later's wife. it was a wonderful experience. for the first time in my life, i had been with so many class one officers. it motivated me to study hard and achieve success like them.

this is a conversation held between me nd mr. deepak anand, ias, on 23rd of july, 2009.........me: hiii bhaiyaa..can we talk? plz?
DEEPAK ANAND: hi
how r u?
me: i am fine bhaiyaa...nd u?
DEEPAK ANAND: fine
aur batao
me: bhaiyaa.....i need a bit of help from u....kyaa aap mujhe thoda time de sakte hain abhi?
DEEPAK ANAND: bolo
me: bhaiyaa...i am doing graduation from du, corrospondance, nd meanwhile working in esic, min of labour, govt of india, nd i am posted in new delhi......i want to prepare for ias...but i am very new for this....can u tell me how to initiate for preparations?
DEEPAK ANAND: read syllabus,look question bank,then basic books,then standard books,then question answer practice
me: thank u so much for ur valuable suggestions....did u take ny coaching classes? as much as i know, u cleared ias in ur very first attempt.......did u go for the coachings?
DEEPAK ANAND: coaching is not must
but u hv to analyze urself
DEEPAK ANAND: if necessary u can do so
me: yaah........
here in delhi, coaching institutes are mushrooming in eme: hiii bhaiyaa..can we talk? plz?
DEEPAK ANAND: hi
how r u?
me: i am fine bhaiyaa...nd u?
DEEPAK ANAND: fine
aur batao
me: bhaiyaa.....i need a bit of help from u....kyaa aap mujhe thoda time de sakte hain abhi?
DEEPAK ANAND: bolo
me: bhaiyaa...i am doing graduation from du, corrospondance, nd meanwhile working in esic, min of labour, govt of india, nd i am posted in new delhi......i want to prepare for ias...but i am very new for this....can u tell me how to initiate for preparations?
DEEPAK ANAND: read syllabus,look question bank,then basic books,then standard books,then question answer practice
me: thank u so much for ur valuable suggestions....did u take ny coaching classes? as much as i know, u cleared ias in ur very first attempt.......did u go for the coachings?
DEEPAK ANAND: coaching is not must
but u hv to analyze urself
DEEPAK ANAND: if necessary u can do so
me: yaah........
here in delhi, coaching institutes are mushrooming in every corner of the city....its really difficult to make out which would be the right one....

i am really sorry if i am taking much of ur precious time,

but one thing more,

can u plzzzzzz tell me how to prepare for g.s. nd how to imporve essay writing? i am sorry if i sound foolish, but as i said, i am really new nd dont have much idea...

DEEPAK ANAND: ncert for gs

editorial pages and yojana and kurukshetra for essay

me: till class 12th?

okkkkk...........

DEEPAK ANAND: yes

science 5 to 10

others 5 to 12

me: okkk.....

thank u bhaiyaaa.......thanks a lot...........for ur valuable suggestions.....it's an honour for me to be able to communicate to u, nd i hope that u wil not deprive me of my this fortune to be able to talk to u in d future.....

DEEPAK ANAND: sure

bye

good night

take care

me: bye bhaiyaa.....nd wish u a very pleasant night to u tooo......

thanx.....

u too take care of ur self....

bitter truth

hiii frnds!!!!

it has been well over a month since i wrote my last blog......many things have changed since......my staying at nehru vihar, away from my family is not showing any results....i am not studying properly....one of the many reasons being presence of too many people in my room...they are guests of my room mate....so i can't say anything to them.........

at personal level, my relations with my frnd divya has become sour......we r not frnds any more......the reason is too personal to be mentioned over here......today i came and checked the results for data entry operator exam and as i had feared, i have not qualified for this...now its two in a row....before this paper, i was disqualified in Chandigarh railways exams also....and this shows that after securing a govt job, i have neglected my studies all together......so i have two goals right now.....to study for the purpose of passing my graduation second year exams with flying colours and to study for general studies.......i should at least give four to five hours of my daily routine to serious studies, then only i would be able to achieve my dream...and my dream is to be an Assistant Commandant in Central Police F0rces........May Lord Hanumana and Amma Bhagwan help me in achieving my goals..................

new happeningsssss

it has been really long since i wrote my last blog.....d last one was written on 2nd of june, just a day after my 23rd birthday......many things have changed in my life since then......i have become mama of a very cute bhanja.....now i dont live wid my dear bhaiyaa and bhabhi....i have rented a room for accomodation and it is being shared by one of my frnd........so lots of exciting things happening right now..........this decision of living seprately was a big one....since my childhood i had been residing wid rajani bhaiyaa....he is more like a father figure to me than a brother......so it was an emotional decision on my part but i had to take it sooner or later.....
now i have started my studies...although its not as good as i had wished, but something is always better than nothing........right now i am concentrating on mathamatics and general studies....the former being my strong poing and d later a weak one......but it is taking a toll on my health....earlier my office was near my house.....it used to hardly take fine mins to reach there on my bike, but now i have to take metro and it consumes exactly an hour from my schedule.....but in life, u can't get everything according to ur choice.....u must live wid all its odds.....and thats true in my case also......
whn i get back from my office, i feel tired....but i make sure it does not affect my studies...as its d only way to reach my ultimate goal......

Happy birthday Kshitij

hiii
yesterday was my birthday....and as usual it was one of the happiest day till date in this year....on the night of 31st may, i got a call from jiju precisely at 12:00AM who wished me a very happy birtday...it was followed by my dear friends Divya and Rajat....My dear frnd anubhav was wid me at that time and he had brought some pastry for me..so we ate that and went to bed....
i recieved a call from my sister in the morning which was followed by a call from Nalin bhaiya, bhabhi and my mother....they all wished me a very happy birthday and wished for my success in d life....now i was full awake and took bath..then a trip was made to the Hanuman temple at Connought Place....in the evening i met with rajat and satya and we spent some quality time with each other....first we went to Mcdonald and it was then followed by a nice dinner.....
i also got calls from Manish and vinit....Manish had called me after some 6 odd months...so it was a plesant surprise.....

नमस्कार दोस्तों, और बताइए क्या हाल चाल है?? मुझे तो ये आज ही पता लगा कि हम यहाँ हिन्दी मे भी ब्लोग्गिंग कर सकते हैं...और ये रहा मैं, यहाँ पर, हिन्दी मे ब्लोग्गिंग करता हुआ, और मैं ये कहना चाहूँगा कि मुझे इसमे बहुत ही मज़ा आ रहा है.........ऊप्स तो आज कि मुलाकात बस यहीं तक.....हा हा हा....चलिए....बाय...एंड ....टेक....CARE

first of all i want to say that it has been really long since i wrote here...

life is okk now a days...but some whre deep in my heart i have some guilts...

first thing is that my graduation exams are starting from 13th of the next month and i really haven't studied at all...i dont know how i am gonna pass it...yadi koi reginal college hota then i had a chance but in Delhi University, chances of cheating seems to be remote...

the second guilt is about me and my dear friend Divya who is now a days angry wid me due to some miscommunications...i will try to resolve the issue in a few days time...

now a days the weather of Delhi is awesome....i read in yesterday's news paper that the max temp of delhi is less than that of jammu and srinagar...ha ha ha..that was cool....